Step by Step Threesome Sample
(From Chapter #2 Persuading
Your Partner)
How to Persuade Your Partner
to Participate on
a Threesome!
Let’s face it, most threesome initiatives are started by the guys!
There are exceptions of course, however
in most cases it’s the guys that come up with the idea...
If the female is the one with the initiative or if both of you are convinced
about pursuing the threesome fantasy, you’ll be one step ahead!
However if you’d like to experience a threesome and you’ve never discussed it
with your partner, you might need some guidelines to help you persuade her into
participating in your fantasy.
The first thing that you’ve got to take into consideration is that
women place high
values on the pair-bond.
Women are very apprehensive of anyone and anything threatening the health and
longevity of the relationship between her and her partner.
For most women, a threesome carries risks she’s not eager to accept.
The first giant obstacle you’ll face
will be to overcome her insecurity.
Besides the social conditioning she was
raised with, there are some obstacles that need to be cleared before she can be
enthusiastic about inviting someone else into an intimate session.
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Any woman who truly cares about you worries about the
relationship, with all the classic fears and uncertainty about your love. You have to understand that
she often asks herself; “Does he love me fully?”
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“Does he love only me?”
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“Does he really like me the way I am?”
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“Am I woman enough to keep him satisfied?”
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“Will he leave me for a younger/firmer/prettier woman?”
Filled with uncertainty and jealously she will defend her turf against all
possible threats.
The only
responsible person to ease the above mentioned issues is the male in the
relationship.
Happy, secure, confident women aren’t very
jealous.
What Behavior Triggers
Her Insecurity?
If your partner is jealous, the root might stem from your own behavior.
If you recognize yourself in some of this behavior,
your partner has every right to
feel insecure about your relationship:
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You’ve frequently expressed your dissatisfaction
about her
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You constantly criticize her and never
compliment her
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You flirt with every cute woman you see
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You stay out all night from time to time
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You’ve expressed your discontent with your life and your relationship
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You
only touch her while having sex and don’t express your love often
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You’ve threatened
to leave her
Any of these types of behavior will rapidly turn into insecurity, resentment and
a constant jealousy. The insecure woman's worst nightmare is another female in
her life and the last thing she’ll do is invite another woman into your bed.
Remember: your partner has to feel very secure of your relationship before she
grants you a threesome.
So make sure you never threaten your relationship. It doesn’t matter how angry
or upset you become. She needs to know that you guys are an item and nothing
will ever break your bond.
If
you want her to be sexually confident, you must work very hard to make
her secure in your love.
If you’re
serious about taking your sex life to a level where
a
threesome can occur you’ll need to make your partner so happy, so positive,
so confident and so secure in your
love that she’s unafraid to share you with another woman.
This is exactly what you need to do to make her feel secure.
Follow these recommendations and she'll be by far more open for granting you a
threesome:
Continued in Chapter
2
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