Step by Step Threesome Sample
(From
Chapter #3 Overcoming Obstacles)
How
to Deal With Feelings Of Jealousy
And Doubt And
Get Ready to
Enjoy a
Threesome This Weekend!
Lets face it...
You’ve learned jealousy from all the people around you,
including your parents.
Most people have three core beliefs about relationships
that are guaranteed to create jealousy even in the most sexual
liberal thinking people.
The sad thing is that most of us have absorbed these beliefs
without even realizing it!
Identifying and dismantling these beliefs in our mind and
heart is the single most effective way to short-circuit
jealousy. The reason why the idea of a threesome is
unthinkable to many people is because
they’ve been “programmed” this way:
If my partner really loved me, he/she wouldn’t have
sexual desires for anyone else but me.
This belief sees any interest your partner has in anyone else
as a direct reflection of how much he or she loves you. It’s a
quantitative view of love which equates the amount of love
with the ability to be interested in having another partner.
This is nuts isn’t it?
We are sexual beings and it is normal to fantasize about being
with other people. Denying these feelings goes against our
nature.
My partner can only be interested in someone else if I’m not a
good enough in bed.
This belief is even more sinister!
With the previous belief you could at least blame it on your
partner for not loving you enough.
This belief says that if your partner is interested in someone
else, it’s your fault for not being the perfect lover or
spouse therefore your relationship must be a failure.
If you truly believe that your lover could only be interested
in another partner because you’re inadequate, you can see how
that will generate jealousy big time!
It’s impossible to share love with more than one person at the
same time.
This belief is built on the "scarcity economy” of love; the
belief that love is a scarce resource, that only so much goes
around and that there’s never enough for all.
If my partner gives away love (time, love, affection, sex,
support) to anyone else, that means that there is less for me.
This belief creates fear and uncertainty. If this belief were
true, then a mother wouldn’t be able to her love her first
child as much after she gives birth to the second child
because she would have to divide her love between two.
In my eyes love is infinite, and the more you give the more
you will receive.
The beliefs mentioned below are connected to three primal
fears and you’ll need to work on eliminating these fears. It
might take a bit of time and effort to adjust and to create a
new set of beliefs.
Think for a moment how much influence these beliefs have had
in your life so far.
Have compassion for yourself as you work with these beliefs
and gradually replace them with beliefs that support your
desire to embrace an open relationship.
Beliefs can be empowering and
disempowering. You are who you are and you are where
you are in your life because of your beliefs.
If you want to start successfully exploring
your sexuality it might be a good idea to opt for a new set of
beliefs!
Enlightened
Belief #1
My partner loves me so much that he/she trusts our
relationship to expand and be enriched by experiencing even
more love from others.
Enlightened
Belief #2
Our relationship is so solid and trusting
that we can experience with other people freely. My partner is
so satisfied with me and our relationship that having other
partners will not threaten the bond we enjoy.
Enlightened
Belief #3
There’s an abundance of love in the world and there is plenty
for everyone. Choosing to make love with more than one person
is a choice that can exponentially expand my potential for
giving and receiving love.
Imagine how different your life would be if you actually had
this set of beliefs instead of the previous ones.
A person with this set of beliefs is not only ready to enjoy a
threesome, but also ready to take their relationship to new
levels of love and understanding.
Unlearning
Jealousy
If jealousy becomes an issue for you and
your partner, this is exactly what you need to do:
Continued in Chapter 3
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